I met Nathan on my first day at Metropolitan
nearly ten years ago. He was also relatively new
to the District and became my guide, helping me
navigate the many personalities, programs, and
policies. For several years, our offices were
right next to each other, giving us plenty of
time to talk and build a solid friendship. When
he later moved to our Sacramento office, we
stayed close, talking regulary about work and
family.
A few years ago, Nathan was diagnosed with
cancer—and he beat it. When it returned a couple
of years later, he conquered it again. But
earlier this year, the cancer came back with a
relentless force, gradually robbing him of his
strength - but never his spirit.
In his final weeks, we spoke often, and
Nathan remained calm and steady—a stark contrast
to my own feelings of panic and fear. I helped
ensure that he and his husband, Moises, had the
right contacts for navigating things like health
care coverage and survivor benefits, but there
was little else I could do.
When Moises called in late July to tell me
Nathan had passed, it left a hole in my heart.
Today, I attended Nathan's memorial service
in Sacramento, where I was honored to give one
of the eulogies. As expected, it was a
beautiful, funny, and uplifting event—a fitting
tribute to a truly great man.